{"id":593,"date":"2026-08-17T16:29:23","date_gmt":"2026-08-17T16:29:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/depthguide.com\/?p=593"},"modified":"2026-08-18T22:13:18","modified_gmt":"2026-08-18T22:13:18","slug":"second-place-was-not-enough","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/depthguide.com\/?p=593","title":{"rendered":"Second Place Was Not Enough"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tales from the Universe<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Moral Dilemma:<\/strong> When striving for excellence genuinely makes people stronger, how do you know when encouragement has become coercion\u2014and who gets to decide when someone has done enough?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The children of Veylan wore medals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">All of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gold for mathematics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Silver for running.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bronze for music.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Green ribbon for gardening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Blue ribbon for public speaking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">White ribbon for cleanliness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There were medals for things Nara had never considered competitive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When she first arrived, she saw a boy wearing a small copper disk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat is that one?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cBreakfast.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara stared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou won breakfast?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The boy nodded proudly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cFastest clean plate under twelve.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara looked at her mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her mother whispered:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cDon&#8217;t start.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They had moved to Veylan because of the schools.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Everyone said they were extraordinary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They were.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Children learned languages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Music.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mathematics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Carpentry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Agriculture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Swimming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">First aid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Debate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By fourteen, most students could do things adults elsewhere never learned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara loved it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her first medal came after three weeks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Third place in a footrace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She ran home wearing the bronze disk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her father lifted her into the air.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cLook at you!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara slept with the medal beside her bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The next month she earned silver.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then gold.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Winning felt wonderful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not merely because of the medal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People noticed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Teachers smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her name appeared on the board.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Other students congratulated her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara began training before school.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Veylan had a saying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It appeared everywhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>BETTER THAN YESTERDAY.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara liked that too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was always something to improve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Run faster.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Read more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hold your breath longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Solve harder problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Practice another hour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Better than yesterday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then Nara became friends with Evin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin had no medals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This was unusual enough that Nara initially assumed he was new.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cHow long have you been here?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMy whole life.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She looked at his empty uniform.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhere are your medals?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI don&#8217;t have any.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNone?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin shrugged.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI don&#8217;t like competitions.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara laughed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He didn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cHow can you not like competing?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI like drawing.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThere are drawing medals.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cSo enter.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThen I start thinking about whether my drawing is better than someone else&#8217;s drawing.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI don&#8217;t want to think about that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara stared at him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat do you think about?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThe drawing.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This seemed suspiciously unserious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin was excellent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That irritated her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He drew buildings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Animals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Once he drew Nara tying her shoe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was so accurate she recognized the expression she made while concentrating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou could win.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThen why don&#8217;t you?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin continued drawing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI already have the picture.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Teachers noticed him too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">His art instructor encouraged him to enter the seasonal exhibition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin refused.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The instructor encouraged harder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin refused again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then his parents were called.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then the headmaster.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara found him afterward sitting behind the gymnasium.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat happened?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThey want me to compete.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cJust do it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou&#8217;d win.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara became frustrated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThen what&#8217;s the problem?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin looked at her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhy does something I love have to become something I can win?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara had no answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The school introduced participation scores.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Students were expected to enter at least four competitions each term.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not necessarily win.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Just participate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The headmaster explained:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cCompetition builds character.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin raised his hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat kind?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The room laughed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The headmaster did not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cDiscipline. Resilience. Ambition.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat if I already have those?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThen competition will strengthen them.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat if I don&#8217;t want them strengthened?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The room became very quiet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara admired him for approximately three seconds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then felt embarrassed on his behalf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin&#8217;s parents made him enter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He submitted a drawing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It won gold.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Everyone celebrated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin looked miserable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara found him holding the medal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou won.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou don&#8217;t look happy.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNow they think they were right.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara understood that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A little.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By fifteen, Nara had thirty-seven medals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She kept them on the wall.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her running had become exceptional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She held the school record.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then another girl broke it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By less than a second.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara congratulated her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then went behind the equipment shed and vomited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She began training twice a day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then three times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her knee started hurting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The coach said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cListen to your body.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then added:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cChampionships are in six weeks.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara heard the second sentence louder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin noticed her limp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cStop running.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI can&#8217;t.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cChampionship.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cSo?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara stared at him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cSo?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou don&#8217;t understand.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cCorrect.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIf I stop now, I lose everything I&#8217;ve trained for.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou already trained.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThat happened.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin pointed at her leg.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThis is happening now.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara ran the championship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She won.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She also tore something in her knee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The physician said she might never compete again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara cried for three days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not because of the pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because she didn&#8217;t know who she was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People visited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They brought flowers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Medals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Encouragement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cCome back stronger.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYour greatest victory is ahead.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cChampions don&#8217;t quit.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Every kindness somehow contained another assignment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara began hating visitors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then Evin arrived.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He brought pencils.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat are these?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cPencils.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI can see that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou&#8217;ve spent six years telling me to compete.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara laughed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThat seems cruel.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He put paper on the bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cDraw something.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI can&#8217;t draw.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cExcellent.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nara drew badly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Extremely badly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her first horse looked like a table experiencing distress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evin kept it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her second was worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For months, Nara drew.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nobody scored it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nobody ranked it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nobody cared whether she improved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Naturally, she improved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That amused her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her knee healed enough to run again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not competitively.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At first this felt unbearable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then one morning she ran alone beyond the town.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No clock.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No coach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No finish line.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p 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