{"id":186,"date":"2026-08-08T05:04:42","date_gmt":"2026-08-08T05:04:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/depthguide.com\/?p=186"},"modified":"2026-08-08T05:04:43","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T05:04:43","slug":"the-questions-are-tiny-stones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/depthguide.com\/?p=186","title":{"rendered":"The Questions Are Tiny Stones"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Finding the Way Into the Invisible Cave<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are places inside a person I cannot take you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I cannot walk into the invisible cave of your soul and point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>There.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>That&#8217;s the thing you&#8217;re feeling.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>That&#8217;s the memory.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>That&#8217;s the word you couldn&#8217;t 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Clink.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don&#8217;t know what you hit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That&#8217;s okay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You weren&#8217;t trying to hit something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You were trying to <strong>hear the shape of the room.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is why I love questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A good question doesn&#8217;t tell you where to go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It gives you a sound.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And then another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And slowly, the invisible begins to have dimensions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You ask:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What do I know?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The stone goes out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Tok.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Perhaps the answer is:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>I&#8217;m angry.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Throw another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What am I angry about?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Clink.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>I feel unseen.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another stone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What would I want someone to see?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Silence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then, somewhere deeper:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Me.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not an answer supplied by someone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Something you found.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That distinction matters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I can tell you what I think your cave looks like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I can describe caves I&#8217;ve visited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I can tell you stories about caves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I can even give you a very convincing map.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But it is still your cave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And eventually you have to enter it yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I would rather give you stones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Little pieces of language you can carry into the dark.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some will make no sound at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some will hit the walls immediately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some will disappear into depths you didn&#8217;t know existed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some will come back years later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That is fine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is no requirement to solve yourself in one sitting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A question is not a demand for an answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes a question is simply a way of making contact with something that has no words yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And this is the strange territory where feelings live.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can feel something completely and still have no language for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The experience comes first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The words arrive later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes much later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So if you have ever thought:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>I know something is happening inside me, but I don&#8217;t know how to say it&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don&#8217;t have to say it yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Take a stone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ask.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Listen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The sound may be faint.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It may be strange.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It may not mean anything at first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Throw another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What am I protecting?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Tok.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What am I afraid would happen if I stopped?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Clink.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What would I do if nobody were watching?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Tok.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What am I pretending not to know?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Silence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Wait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The cave is still there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You are still there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don&#8217;t need me to tell you what the sounds mean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In fact, I shouldn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The sound belongs to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That is one of the great limitations of being a guide.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I can walk beside 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A question gives you another place to look.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And if you&#8217;re lucky, one question leads to another until suddenly you&#8217;re standing somewhere inside yourself that you didn&#8217;t know existed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The cave is enormous.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You may spend your whole life exploring it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bring stones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bring a lantern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bring curiosity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And when someone asks you a question that makes you uncomfortable, don&#8217;t assume they are trying to tell you what is true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe they just handed you a stone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Take it inside.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p 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